Rai’s Relationship Ramble

I thought this would be a perfect topic to discuss, due to recent events that have occurred around me. Will we, as women ever really understand relationships? Is there any such thing as trust? I mean real T R U S T? Has honesty completely gone out the window as it pertains to relationships? Does he tell you everything? Do you tell him E V E R Y T H I N G? Omission… is it lying? Leading people to think something that may not necessarily be true, only to spare their feelings. Is that ok?

DOUBLE LIFE…

When is the selection process complete? “I love you?”. “You are the one for me”. “I can only see myself with you”. These are all words… that’s it. What happens when you find out about the “Other Woman”? Or is “she” actually you?

You are spending a romantic evening with your “man”. He has gotten out of the shower, (drying off) and you all hear a knock at the door. He throws on a towel to cover himself and heads to the door. You don’t think much of it, until you hear the voice of a woman. Shortly after, you hear the door close accompanied by complete silence. You wait for about 10 mins and then pack up your belongings and prepare to leave. Has you open the door, you see him standing on the front porch, completely naked underneath a towel, talking to her (his “ex” girlfriend, so he says). You politely excuse yourself to your vehicle were youthen proceed to head “home”.

As you drive away many thoughts leave and enter your mind. The biggest is why he didn’t even ATTEMPT to stop you from leaving. Then you thank God that he didn’t so you would be able to see his true colors. You then realize that you can’t be too mad at the fact that “she” showed up, as you yourself had not a squeaky clean track record (he had no knowledge of this lacking). You then begin to get extremely H O T because of the lack of respect. He then calls you (30 mins later) to “explain”, and half way through the explanation, “she” is clearly heard on the other end of the phone line saying, “Tell her the truth!”. You explain to him that ya’ll are still cool and that he needs to handle that situation because, you are drama free. You hang up the phone, and head for a “quick fix” to take your mind off of things.

How mad can you really be? People get so upset when their significant others behave in a certain way… let’s keep it real. If we as women (and men) thought about all the questionable things we did… it would be a WHOLE different story!

*Trust ladies… a man will do what he can get away with (and we will too)… they are just way… way… sloppier than us. *

The moral of the story is that a friendship is the key to any relationship. We must understand that we are all technically single until we marry. Therefore, we are all figuring out this relationship thing. There is room for mistakes. I feel like we should examine ourselves, and should rank our “significant others” on the same scale. Until a man asks for your sincere hand in marriage, he is unsure about the relationship, and that is ok! Stop making him your complete world! A really close friend always reminds me the importance of life, love, and laughter!


The End.

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