Soley Keeping it Real!

I would like to begin this post by giving thanks to J, Leggs, Princessa and Eryn for the enlightenment given for the previous post... "When Keeping it Real Goes Wrong."

Princessa... I almost had to take you up on the offer to "ride out". They don't know us!

JBigg... you can put up your beach chair and popcorn 'cause nothing is unfolding around these parts. It may sound weird to you all, but the situation was diffused really quick.

In a Nutshell...

Obviously I was (and still am) keeping my eyes open to the situation. The ex began to "stalk" me in away after I responded to her message. She is indeed obsessed over King... too weird to me as I have never been obsessed over anyone. I can't speak for what he has or hasn't told her, but she is a bit much. What really opened my eyes to how delusional she was, was when she claimed to have been with him on dates that I was with him all day and being with him at events that I was with him at... unless he has a twin. She then admitted to lying to me. As for the deletion of my comment... which was nothing major... he knew how crazy she was and didn't want her to have access to me. Obviously... that didn't work... he got a real good "talking to".

I am his woman and I can post whatever I would like to were ever I would like to. Men will do what you let them. This was definitely a learning lesson for him. I command the utmost respect. Believe that. I don't care how private he is!

Saying all this to say... it was definitely a drama filled situation that I did not want to have any parts of. King and I just started to have issues nearing the year mark. Just growing pains of a relationship. I love him and he loves me. Though I am not a fool I will never let a woman come in between us. We are much more than lovers... we are best friends and most importantly... we are better than that. She was a stalker and is willing to do anything to ruin our relationship. Don't get it twisted... I still have my eye on him, but what is real is real... I have all access to his life... keys... locations... friends... family.

Yes. A man will cheat... but... I am not psychic. I know how I am treated.

I had a really interesting conversation with a dear friend. We decided that there is a thin line between being in love and being a fool. For real love to last sometimes you have to be a bit of both. No one will understand my situation and no one is supposed to. I had to post about the situation so thanks for listening... reading.

Those of you all who know me personally... know how tough my skin is and how I deeply evaluate situations. That has not changed. I grew up with guys who did all kinds of dirt... I have did all kinds of dirt. Dirt doing is inevitable... it is true understanding and unconditional love that comes once in a lifetime.

I have truly found my soul-mate and nothing is going to stop us.

For now.

The End.

~lifehandyouanemptybottle...beatthatb*tchwitit!~