Keeping the Real in Your Relationship…

I just had to write about this topic as it has recently come to my attention how important my relationship is to me. My chicas (as I call them) wonder how my relationship with my partner has survived recent turbulence. The only reply that I can give is relevant to the realness of our relationship.

For once in life I am in a situation were I can be 110% me… and it is ok. I am not forced to fit into a stereotype or attempt to become the type of woman he would want me to be. I can simply and only be me.

I guess what I am attempting to say is a relationship can never last without “realness”. Honesty and realness are synonymous terms. A relationship cannot thrive with out honesty. Actually it is the building block of any relationship. Honesty gives each person the ability to see exactly what they are getting into with out the usual facades that are put up in relationships. Will there be exes? Yes. Will there be habits you are not use to? Yes. Will it be easy all the time to handle the truth? No. …and Yes… the truth does hurt sometimes, but it is truly important to know the truth AND handle it according to your personal morals and ethics.

I challenge each of you out there that are involved in a relationship to become your man/woman’s best friend. Treat them as you would your closest girl/guy friend. Take all the censors off and get to know you partner for who they are. The fact of the matter is it all comes out at some point or another. …and yes, get ready for possible DRAMA. Especially if you are dealing with someone who is morally a good person, physically attractive and successful… believe me… the exes will pop out of the wood works.

Realness can conquer ALL.

So… my challenge to you all is to be real with your mate. Become best friends and see were that takes you. After all… any solid relationship is based on the friend factor. Become ace koon boons (as my Granny ‘nem would say) and take it from there.

Peace and Blessings.

The End.


~realnessisreadinessforthenextlevel~